da and as somebody who goes to a private college, i'm honestly really sorry this has been your experience with private school students. personally, i'm on financial aid/scholarship/work to help pay for my tuition, and i probably get irrationally pressed at well-off students here who are undervaluing their education. when i'm at home (my school's pretty far from my hometown) i'm actually kind of embarrassed to talk about where i go to school sometimes for that reason /o\