♡ bombameme ♡ ([personal profile] exomeme) wrote2014-07-18 12:24 pm

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(Anonymous) 2014-07-19 05:24 am (UTC)(link)
Have you ever been around a frat? They're exactly like that.

(Anonymous) 2014-07-19 05:25 am (UTC)(link)
personally i'm just fine with #bros chinguline who rib on each other constantly and get into shenanigans together, which idt is "fratbro" characterization at all, and even if it is idt it's ooc bc within exo beagles are generally moodmakers and jokers

(Anonymous) 2014-07-19 05:25 am (UTC)(link)
sa oh wait just bted ig this isn't directed at me...?? sry

(Anonymous) 2014-07-19 05:25 am (UTC)(link)
not op but to me chen doesn't fit the frat boys type? he sees like the nice studying type with little group of friend. chanyeol fits the rich frat boys stereotype just fine. baek is just loud. you know those kids who are just loud

(Anonymous) 2014-07-19 05:26 am (UTC)(link)
da i completely disagree, it's not ooc at all. firstly, i think people sweep a broad variety of normal behaviors under the "frat bro" characterization which always baffles me because 90% of the fics i've read that have this so-called "douchebro characterization" contain completely normal interactions between friends. idk if anons have actually met frat bros irl but i went to a school with a really, really large greek population and i really couldn't disagree more with labeling the characterization as frat bro.

- nobody's binge drinking
- nobody's deliberately rude to people (beyond normal teasing)
- nobody's destroying property
- nobody's racist/homophobic/engaging in any sort of hazing behavior
- nobody's spoiled/coming from money/using their position to manipulate people

obviously there are guys in frats who are, you know, not like this, but since people are making the generalization that any sort of male friendship dynamic is "frat bro" i feel like there needs to be some sort of clarification that no, there's actually a vast difference between ~real frat bros~ and just... boys. and not even boys, necessarily, it's just a type of good friendship.

you watch interactions between the guys and they're exactly that: guys, who are friends with each other. that means giving each other shit and teasing each other. sometimes they're supportive, sometimes they say things to purposely embarrass each other. it's just normal friendship dynamics imo and certainly more realistic/probably closer to the reality than whatever ~sensitive~ guy characterization anons are looking for. that's more like wish fulfillment for a reader than actually being in character.

(Anonymous) 2014-07-19 05:26 am (UTC)(link)
dda +1 lol and idt i've seen that much fic if any where they're completely antagonistic towards each other? maybe i'm not reading the right fic but in my experience there's always an undercurrent of fondness there lol

and yeah like u said they shit on each other all the time but they're obviously close too lol

(Anonymous) 2014-07-19 05:26 am (UTC)(link)
welcome to what it's like having best friends, that's not limited to being in a frat lmao

(Anonymous) 2014-07-19 05:26 am (UTC)(link)
da +1 idu it being labelled as "fratbro" bc idk thats how my rl friends and i act around eo and we're most def not fratbros lmao

(Anonymous) 2014-07-19 05:27 am (UTC)(link)
diff cliques, shitting on each other

(Anonymous) 2014-07-19 05:27 am (UTC)(link)
lmao what is this 2012 characterization

(Anonymous) 2014-07-19 05:28 am (UTC)(link)
yeah ia lol in my mind most if not all of it is pretty normal friend behavior

(Anonymous) 2014-07-19 05:28 am (UTC)(link)
da +1 lol

(Anonymous) 2014-07-19 05:30 am (UTC)(link)
+1000000

(Anonymous) 2014-07-19 05:31 am (UTC)(link)
lol i think mostly what anons meant when they say fratbros is that they're very americanized/westernized? (and i enjoy them just fine) but i mean when they get written in english it's hard not to write them that way... idk someone with better english explain this

(Anonymous) 2014-07-19 05:31 am (UTC)(link)
i get what you mean but i can't explain it either lmao

(Anonymous) 2014-07-19 05:32 am (UTC)(link)
i guess i don't know how korean bro dudes act

(Anonymous) 2014-07-19 05:35 am (UTC)(link)
da ah lol i think i get what you mean! for me part of it is what you said, the fact that it's fic that's written in english sometimes means that some of the turns of phrase are more westernized than not. but ida with the assessment that some anons have brought up in the past that "only american frat dudes act like this" because imo a lot of the stuff they're complaining about is normal friend behavior and that kind of thing is pretty universal regardless of what country you're from or what country you live in, if that makes sense? like lol as if korean dudes are not capable of being assholes about teasing each other or participating in underage drinking or playing stupid games and betting on them, you've seen exo's well circulated predebut videos you know the dumb shit they're capable of

(Anonymous) 2014-07-19 05:35 am (UTC)(link)
lmao that's fair i suppose although i think you're vastly overestimating the differences between men (and just people in general) from culture to culture. i'm sure there are nuances that are missed just by virtue of being in english or whatever, and the jokes are going to be english because a lot of stuff like that just straight-up doesn't translate, but lol, other than societal standards for manners/etc, human interaction isn't that different anywhere you go, especially when you're around friends, where things tend to be more relaxed anyway.

but a lot of anons complain about this when they're specifically set in western aus, and it's like... what were you really expecting?

Re: /o\

(Anonymous) 2014-07-19 05:37 am (UTC)(link)
omggg ilu

(Anonymous) 2014-07-19 05:38 am (UTC)(link)
cantaloupe

yes i can

(Anonymous) 2014-07-19 05:39 am (UTC)(link)
who does your bias like the most

(Anonymous) 2014-07-19 05:39 am (UTC)(link)
People have this misconception that all frat dudes are dickwads...It's a culture that can def breed dickish behavior but most frat guys are really nice.

People also fail to take into account that there are a bunch of different types of frats. Service frats, religious frats, etc. You don't have to be rich to be in a frat.

That said, a lot of frat guys are loudly douche to/with their friends....exactly like the beagles are.

I also think it's more about having a life long brotherhood, similar to what exo have. So it makes sense that in an au/ar you'd want them to have that same kinda binding connection. At least that's what I like most about the beagle frat dynamics! Loud dickish buds who are gonna be bonded for life uwu

(Anonymous) 2014-07-19 05:40 am (UTC)(link)
i'm sad i just don't have opinions about fic anymore

(Anonymous) 2014-07-19 05:40 am (UTC)(link)
hard to tell, he touches eo all the time

(Anonymous) 2014-07-19 05:40 am (UTC)(link)
k