β™‘ bombameme β™‘ ([personal profile] exomeme) wrote2019-12-12 11:08 pm

part three hundred and sixty five

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(Anonymous) 2020-05-13 05:48 pm (UTC)(link)
i’m gonna be tearing up tomorrow i just know it

(Anonymous) 2020-05-13 06:57 pm (UTC)(link)
i'm trying not to think about it

(Anonymous) 2020-05-13 07:22 pm (UTC)(link)
:(

(Anonymous) 2020-05-13 07:33 pm (UTC)(link)
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this broke me

(Anonymous) 2020-05-13 07:44 pm (UTC)(link)
he will be okay and all but i'll miss hearing from suho ;;;;

(Anonymous) 2020-05-13 08:14 pm (UTC)(link)
i found these two twt threads really touching ;;;;

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"There were times where the phone calls from my members when I was spending my personal time were a bit unwelcome. But being someone who can be if some help even at the very least during their hard times is much better than being a leader that no one comes to for help"

(Anonymous) 2020-05-13 08:57 pm (UTC)(link)
i want to vent about fans and how demanding they are to chanyeol about studio nng but i'm starting to see the pattern and how demanding fans are to oppars in general

(Anonymous) 2020-05-13 08:59 pm (UTC)(link)
what now

(Anonymous) 2020-05-13 09:07 pm (UTC)(link)
have you watched the latest video? it shows a clip of him and mq filmed last may before they launched the channel talking about it and then recent footage of pcy opening up about it now and he said how after their first upload got so much criticism he decided to rethink the channel and just do whatever he wanted and kfans are saying stuff now like how he'd have more subscribers if the channel content was different or if it was just him and not mq. and like that's obviously okay if the content isn't something someone is interested in but this channel is pcy's space to do whatever and being so demanding that it isn't exactly what the fans want to see is just entitlement at this point? we always complain about how we wanted the members to have more freedom and here pcy is doing something he feels freedom in doing and this is how some fans are responding

(Anonymous) 2020-05-13 09:57 pm (UTC)(link)
they are crazy. i like how pcy keeps doing his thing even though he is a crowd pleaser and cant help himself. baby steps for him

also sehun posting monsieur after they went crazy and doxxed his friend

the extreme hate when they do things for free too. they are very possesive and entitled

(Anonymous) 2020-05-13 09:58 pm (UTC)(link)
da I understand both sides

pcy should be allowed to post whatever he wants even tho the content might not be be cup of tea of a lot fans

and fans are allowed to express how they aren't going to consume something they don't want to see either (specially after pcy expressed that thing about expecting more followers)

(Anonymous) 2020-05-13 10:11 pm (UTC)(link)
i don't think he did that to guilt fans though, i think he said that to compare how his expectations and plans for the channel have changed over the past year. i'm not defensive because fans don't like the content of the channel, i think the way a lot of fans are expressing that dislike is going too far? i'm not interested in everything every member does either and that's okay!

i think this is a bigger problem in fandom than just pcy's channel tho, now that they're starting to go off on their own and explore their own creativity and projects i've noticed so many fans being ott and entitled about the things they don't like. even look at bbh's new album for example, i saw so many complaints and jokes about the design of the album and teasers and it's like oppars definitely have more control over their own solos so if bbh wasn't happy with that design it wouldn't look that way? expressing opinions is different than the fans creating their own logos and designs and being all like "i fixed it" you know?

(Anonymous) 2020-05-13 10:16 pm (UTC)(link)
yeah the doxxing thing was crazy?? i think that's exactly it, this is all just free content he's doing for us and he even thought to have them subbed in english so it was more accessible to more fans. most of the videos now are just short little vlogs anyway, i just don't get this reaction i guess

(Anonymous) 2020-05-13 11:53 pm (UTC)(link)
da/ayrt above: your point about entitlement reminded me of that outcry against the what a life mv. fans constantly argue they make these demands because they're "protecting" idols when in reality they're just pushing them own beliefs onto them tbh (ditto with osh and monsieur)

i get being critical of mq's behavior but you can't tell me that's all there is to this when fans have always tried to force their way in this fandom, this is all indicative of a pervasive issue that is part of idol-fan culture. i'm glad pcy is starting to chip away at that in his own even if idc for mq bc it's so easy for that to pigeonhole him as an artist tbh

also lol there were so many people who "fixed" bbh's album logo and just made it uglier 😭

(Anonymous) 2020-05-13 11:58 pm (UTC)(link)
i also don't think he said it to guilt trip them but he took it for granted that they were gonna get those much followers and he realized now that is not always like that. it's ok.

i do think fans feel entitled to a lot of things about them in different degrees but i also think they realized they don't have to carter to their interests all the time.

tbh i think even between fans, they feel like they are entitled to dictate how people should act as well (the whole u are not a real fan if___)

it's truly a toxic cicle

(Anonymous) 2020-05-14 12:27 am (UTC)(link)
kfans are especially condescending, them telling pcy that other members should post and his reply was 'okay', i just remember feeling disgusted with their entitlement and that's not how you talk to someone you supposedly like

(Anonymous) 2020-05-14 12:30 am (UTC)(link)
sa ifans has their share as well, constant whining about kai's fenty endorsement, his solo album, etc, it's just unhealthy overall and i'm glad oppars are still willing to deal with those but also worried for them

(Anonymous) 2020-05-14 02:01 am (UTC)(link)
i love him and I don’t wanna lose him for almost two years ;____;

(Anonymous) 2020-05-14 02:04 am (UTC)(link)
did he leave already :(

(Anonymous) 2020-05-14 02:10 am (UTC)(link)
i'm so tired of fans omg. poor chanyeol. all that lysn interaction he's been doing lately. he's doing so much stuff, and i'd figure that fans should be grateful that chanyeol feels comfortable enough to be showing us the random stuff he does!?!

i'm a chen fan and i'm grateful for the one-take singing clips we have on his yt channel. and heck, i'm glad jd's doing his thing, i'm just hoping he and his fam's able to be safe from sasaengs. i am so fucking tired of the extrapolation fans are doing about what exo member's actions do or don't mean when it comes to the friendships within exo.

g*d i'm so tired. i've *been* tired for over a week now of even fellow fans that i actively like who are asking suho for an ig post of a selfie of his new haircut like like like!! i get it but also wow fans are a demanding bunch.

i'm sorry for going off in a reply to your comment.

(Anonymous) 2020-05-14 02:13 am (UTC)(link)
no anon you're right, everything you mentioned is part of the exhaustion i feel too

(Anonymous) 2020-05-14 02:20 am (UTC)(link)
we're really not going to get a group pic πŸ’”

(Anonymous) 2020-05-14 03:08 am (UTC)(link)
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(Anonymous) 2020-05-14 03:18 am (UTC)(link)
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delight honey version ;; it's so cute

(Anonymous) 2020-05-14 03:32 am (UTC)(link)
it's cute but idk if i like it as an album cover ;;