♡ bombameme ♡ ([personal profile] exomeme) wrote2016-04-02 09:10 pm

part three hundred and twenty nine

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(Anonymous) 2016-04-22 09:39 pm (UTC)(link)
Honestly and fair enough if op forgives him but everyone else is entitled to their own judgement

Also I know kids that age that are little shits but being little shits can come at different levels and children know when they do things with bad intent with the aim to the hurt, now if op things that taeyong is a changed man okay but his stans or whoever need to stop trying to push that his behaviour was normal young child behaviour because it wasn't and it was cruel and it's not like it was a one off, it happened repeatedly.

imo sm would not let taeyong debut if he stilk had the same character but his stans/defenders need to find any other argument that isn't children are shitty!!! at that age because anyone who has been child knows that behaving like that is not normal and have often been victims of such behaviour because adults give it a pass.

Re: +1

(Anonymous) 2016-04-22 09:50 pm (UTC)(link)
need to stop trying to push that his behaviour was normal young child behaviour because it wasn't and it was cruel and it's not like it was a one off, it happened repeatedly

this is what irks me when it comes to this debate. i wonder if people with this view have ever been victim of those things he's accused of themselves because it sounds like they don't have a lot of empathy for the victims when they defend him with this argument which is ironic because what they are trying to say is that they have a lot of empathy and it's why they can forgive and connect with taeyong