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[(Anonymous)]

jonghyun had a great relationship with his mom and sister. he had lots of friends and fans and colleagues who love him. he talked about his issues publicly and had his music as his outlet. he helped other people who are also suffering. he confided to friends and he went to the doctor. it just seems like he did everything "right" yet his pain was still too much. i just feel so hopeless right now. please tell me anons, what more could have he done? what more could have his loved ones done to help? why did this happen? i've been battling depression for years and i know the feeling of pain and emptiness so well but suicide is hard to fathom. will it eventually get to me too? what can i even do to help people with those same thoughts?

[(Anonymous)]

there's no simple answer i don't think. i wish he had a doctor that understood him and maybe got put on mediation. his friend said that all her support just delayed the inevitable... every case is individual. i think the best you can do is be open and find professionals that you trust. be supportive and kind to all around you

[(Anonymous)]

da thank you for this

[(Anonymous)]

da a friend of his said he was using medication but that he still didnt feel well

[(Anonymous)]

i've been battling depression for nearly 10 years, & yes, i had a lot of suicidal thoughts. Medication and therapy helps me a lot anon. I went to a few different psychiatrist until i find my current dr that i thought listened to me best, and i can trully follow their advice. My first few dr were quite dismissive of my concern & problem and i really felt at time it was the end, but my family did not give up on me, they brought me to another psychiatrist, and then another until i find my current dr. Dont be afraid anon. at one point, you will feel you're at your lowest point, but somehow, it'll get better.

[(Anonymous)]

you're not alone anon. i kept asking what more could have been done? i battled depression myself but it was not till years later and i was living with someone who has depression as well that i realized how hard it must be for loved ones when they're trying, i did not realize it when i was battling depression until i had to be there for someone with depression. im glad that thus far, the idea of suicide seems so far away for you and i hope it remains like that. i battled with that idea for a year, trying to find different ways i could go and it is different for everyone how they come out of that.

one thing i've learned is that now i need to be kinder and reach out so much more to people. don't wait for people to reach out to me because i myself know how difficult it is to tell someone help, i need help. so i need to take the initiative, even when they're not showing any signs, to just reach out and ask how they're day was, how are they and that i'm here and that i care.